
Maybe incorporate that into your wedding vows. So if you and your partner are pissin' on each other (best done in the shower), and neither of you get weird about it, then it's probably true love. While it might seem like a degrading act, it's actually kind of the opposite. BDSM itself requires a lot of trust, care, and attention during the act, which is something that usually exists between partners who have a mutual respect and love for one another. Golden showers usually exist under the BDSM umbrella, because the dominant person in the relationship will urinate on whoever is subordinate. But if it's for you and your significant other, then you're most likely so into one another, that nothing feels uncomfortable, no matter what. Sound kind of weird? Hey, it's not for everybody. "The Wheelbarrow"īy now, you probably know what a golden shower is. Seems like a fun way to find out if your relationship has what it takes to go the distance! 1. I also wouldn't go spread eagle with someone I hardly knew that would just be awkward and TMI.Īnyway, crack open your Kama Sutra, because if you can get away with doing these sex positions, then it's definitely true love with your partner. I wouldn't be tied down, literally, by someone I didn't trust. For example, role-play is typically an activity reserved for couples who are semi-serious. The more comfortable you are with a person, the more you can spice things up in the bedroom without having it get uncomfortable.


But if you don't feel awkward regardless of what happens in the bedroom, it's a pretty good indicator that you and your partner have real feelings for each other. I mean, what are weird sex positions anyway, right? Every human pretzel I have to get myself into to achieve orgasm feels pretty awkward to begin with - even the "normal" stuff. But when something weird happens in bed, and neither of you care, to me, that's when it's true love. Some of my relationships were ruined by it, and that is when I would hang my head in shame ( unnecessary). I won't get into them because I want people to think I'm cool in the sack, and also, this isn't a diary entry. I have done a lot of embarrassing things during sex.
